Grandmother Song - Sheffy Oren Bach

Words for life. Strive to be Happy.

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,

and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible without surrender

be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly;

and listen to others,

even the dull and the ignorant;

they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,

they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,

you may become vain and bitter;

for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;

it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs;

for the world is full of trickery.

But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;

many persons strive for high ideals;

and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.

Especially, do not feign affection.

Neither be cynical about love;

for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment

it is as perennial as the grass

Take kindly the counsel of the years,

gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.

But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.

Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,

be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,

no less than the trees and the stars;

you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you,

no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,

whatever you conceive Him to be,

and whatever your labors and aspirations,

in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,

it is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful.

Strive to be happy.

— Max Ehrmann, 1927

"Everything is Holy Now....Wine from water is not so small but an even better magic trick is anything is here at all."💖

Voice of Experience

Life experiences provide valuable lessons, giving older individuals a deeper understanding of people, situations, and the world.

Aging comes with a wealth of benefits that enrich life in meaningful ways. Here are some of the advantages of growing older:

 

1. Wisdom and Perspective

Life experiences provide valuable lessons, giving older individuals a deeper understanding of people, situations, and the world.

The ability to see the bigger picture often leads to better decision-making and a more balanced perspective on challenges.

2. Emotional Resilience

With age comes a greater capacity to manage emotions and navigate life's ups and downs with grace.

Challenges faced and overcome create a sense of inner strength and adaptability.

3. Authenticity and Self-Acceptance

Many older people feel more comfortable in their own skin, prioritizing authenticity over societal expectations.

There’s often less concern with external validation and more focus on what truly matters to them.

4. Stronger Relationships

As priorities shift, deeper, more meaningful connections with family and friends often take center stage.

Older adults often become mentors, offering guidance and support to younger generations.

5. Freedom and Clarity

Many enjoy more freedom to pursue passions, hobbies, and interests that were previously set aside due to career or family responsibilities.

Prioritizing what brings joy and fulfillment becomes a guiding principle.

6. Gratitude and Appreciation

A greater appreciation for life’s simple pleasures, from nature to meaningful conversations, often grows with age.

Gratitude for health, relationships, and past experiences fosters a sense of contentment.

7. Financial Stability

Many older adults enjoy the financial benefits of years of hard work, including savings, investments, and retirement plans.

This financial stability can allow for travel, leisure, or supporting causes they care about.

8. Legacy and Impact

Older individuals have the opportunity to reflect on the legacy they’re creating and the impact they’ve had on others.

Sharing their stories, values, and wisdom becomes a way to inspire and guide future generations.

9. Health Knowledge and Care

With experience, many adopt healthier lifestyles and practices that promote longevity and well-being.

A better understanding of their body’s needs often leads to more mindful self-care.

10. Time for Reflection and Growth

Aging provides time to reflect on life’s journey, fostering personal growth and a sense of spiritual or philosophical fulfillment.

It’s a stage where inner peace often becomes more attainable.

Growing older is a journey filled with opportunities for growth, joy, and enrichment. Each stage of life offers its unique gifts, and with age, these gifts often shine even brighter

 

 

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